Attract Deliberately with Linda Brett-Kell Law of Attraction Coach

How to Have a Smoother Ride in Life

How to Have a Smoother Ride through Life

 

 

 

 

All of us enjoy a smooth ride. It may be in our family car, motorcycle, or bike. Whatever the vehicle is, we all want a smooth ride.  Here are some of things to make that possible:

1. ability/belief that you can drive, or ride the vehicle

2. focus on the road ahead

3. avoid the potholes, bumps in the road

4. follow your map or GPS remembering where you want to go

 

These same things are necessary as we are traveling down life’s road. Let’s take a look at the similarities.

 

To have a smooth ride in our lives these are some important things to remember:

 

1. belief in your ability to live a joyful life and have a smooth ride

2. focus on the road ahead, rather than the last trip (mistake) you made

3. avoid the naysayers, negative Ned’s & Nellies in your life

                             avoid using negative words don’t not and no

4. follow the dreams and goals on your life’s map

 

Bottom line:  When you feel you are getting off course just like your GPS reminds you : “recalculate”.  How?  by asking yourself this extremely important question:

“what do I really want?”

 

Stay on the road that leads you in that direction.

Smile as you drive by life is good

Contrast or My Rotten egg salad sandwhich

Contrast observe briefly

Are you still smelling the rotten egg salad sandwich?

 

How long would you be willing to smell a rotten egg salad sandwich? You first reaction might be “or you nuts Linda, get that out of my face”  Smelling something that bad needs to be done “briefly”.  I often ask clients and myself, why is it we wouldn’t smell a rotten sandwich for any length of time and yet we hold on to

*rotten relationships

*rotten attitudes

*rotten jobs

You get the idea.  This is all about CONTRAST, something we must have in our lives in order to gain clarity on what we really want and desire.  The problem with most people is they  just keep hanging on to the contrast, focusing on it, complaining and whining about it but refuse to ask them self the magic question “what do I want?”   The job, if you will for the contrast in our lives is to observe it briefly. See it, recognize it, and then know that is definitely something on your “don’t want” list.  Amazing fact but ever so true the more you focus on what you don’t want, the more of what you don’t want, shows up in your life. Let’s move toward a solution for this. It’s a clarity through contrast worksheet, which you can download free, on this site.  After you get clear on what it is you really want, then proceed with joy and enthusiasm giving those things your energy, attention and focus.  Question on this, I’m just an e-mail away lbrettkell@ec.rr.com

Law of Attraction New Age or Old Age?

                              Law of Attraction New Age or Old Age

 

I find it very interesting  that those who have no idea what law of attraction is immediately discount it  as some wacko New Age “thing”.  I also feel that God, our creator must also be getting a chuckle out of this thought.  He may be thinking “has no one read the scripture?”  Throughout the scripture both old and new testament we find evidence that the law of attraction has existed since the beginning of time. Simply put: you reap what you sow.

We all accept Newton’s theory of the law of gravity. We would also agree that gravity was present in the world prior to Newton’s discovery.

Spiritual leaders throughout the ages have spoken about the power of words, and thoughts and how they impact what we are receiving. Since the beginning of time the idea of reaping and sowing has remained unchanged.

Definition of Law of Attraction: I bring into my  life, whatever I give attention, energy and focus to, whether positive or negative.

There was no New Age guru who came up the law of attraction.  Law of attraction has been here since the beginning ot time.  Writers through out time have been writing about this principle. Old and New Testament speak of the power of our tongue. More recently due to the coverage Oprah gave to Rhonda Byrne author of  “The Secret” LOA  received a lot of attention.  Many people then decided since it was news to them it must be New Age.

I want to encourage  those who believe law of attraction is some type of New Age, mumbo, jumbo to open your mind and reconsider.

I am a Christian and have been for 63 years, yes I am that old, 71 to be exact.  Law of attraction has given me amazing  insight on how much my words affect my thoughts, my thoughts become my feelings  and then I get a result.  When I fail to get the result I’m wanting I take responsibility for that rather than 1. Blaming God or 2. Deciding he is testing/or punishing me. Yes, I said I take responsibility. I know changing my words, changes my thoughts, feelings and results.  God has given us a brain to use; we are not Puppets on a string manipulated by Him. We have free will.

You get what you focus on, make it magnificent.  LOA it’s been here since the beginning of time.  Be a Deliberate Attractor of what you are wanting.

 

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Got a Minute? — 101 Words To Inspire You To Action

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 In our busy world we sometimes need to just take a minute, breath, and read something that uplifts us and inspires us to take positive action. That is what my new book, “Got a Minute” Is all about … 

  music-notes  Listen to this audio “Open”  - An excerpt from the book  

 

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 I love your book “Got A Minute?” :) Thanks for writing something so easy to read, yet packed with positive and motivating lessons for every aspect of life…you are a teacher, a light, a good friend…and will help many people continue on their journey as they work towards attaining their goals, xoxo ~ Monnie W.

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 Love it, after I bought mine, I bought 3 more to give to friends. ~ Dola B.

 Just got mine, finished word one, what a great read. ~ Eric C.

 Linda’s book “Got A Minute” will inspire you to action. I love your writing style–it’s so easy, fun and motivating! Thank you Linda.  M.E.

 

 

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The Secret to Releasing Unwanted Weight

I know this is going to sound so simple, and honestly it is. I have never been grossly over weight, but at 4’10″ 5-10 lbs makes a huge difference. Like many of you reading this that are over that certain age when our metabolism slows down and we aren’t as active as we were ….well it seems more difficult to release those 5-10 lbs.

Note I’m using the word release rather than loose. There is a method to my madness here. When we loose something we generally want to find it again. When we release something we freely let it go. The words we use are extremely important. Now this brings me to the secret. It’s about choosing the words

 

“I have decided to”  Woman looking in the mirror

 

That’s right the secret is simply quit using the words trying to. Let me prove my point, before you read further “try” to pick up something that is close by. Did you pick it up? You see you either did or you didn’t. I have found when I decide to do something, it’s done.

When I say I’ll try, well I rarely get the same results.

So now that you have decided to release the weight, you need a plan. What’s the ideal food plan for you? It’s important to select the plan that is right for you. I’m making this a bit easier by asking you to begin clarifying what is the best plan for you. You can get the Clarity through Contrast Sheet for FREE from the worksheets page. Design the plan that is ideal for you. Think back to previous plans and put the things you disliked on the left side of the page. Then right what you do want on the right side.

You get the idea. Really get clear on what is going to work for you, because you have Decided to, and you will succeed. Another HINT: use this affirmation

  ”I am in the process of releasing all my unwanted weight”

              

How to Eat An Elephant

It’s simple really, one bite at a time.  Are you like me and sometimes wake up and immediately play in your head everything that must be done that day or even the entire week.  We are defeated and worn out before we began.  We’ve tried to get through a whole day before we had our eyes open fully.  Let me suggest an easier way (and much more fun) to face your day or a given task like elephant eating do it a “bite at a time”.  What I’m saying is deliberately create how you want your day or a seeming difficult task to go.  Start by segmenting into small bits of time what you are wanting.

Ex: 1.  I want a safe and easy flow through traffic from point A to B.  You’ll be amazed at the green lights and easy flow of traffic.

Then focus on the next part of your day, imagine it going just the way you want it to go….deliberately create it.

You’ll be excited to watch your day unfold segment by segment. . It’s so liberating to know that you can control the events of the day by controlling your words and thoughts about that day.  You will find yourself living in joy just as you were meant to live. We can all create what we want in our lives one “bite” at a time.

Choosing Your Road

August was our Southwest USA Road Trip.(5500miles)  We enjoyed amazing scenery, food & different cultures. We did this the old fashion way,  no GPS, just good ole maps and Mapquest.

We, I must admit had a few exchanges between us that perhaps a GPS would have solved.  A portion of our trip was spent volunteering at Michael Losier’s Certified Law of Attraction Training in Phoenix. A high vibe time for sure.  High temps to 112 degrees.

As you might imagine on such a long trip we had to make a lot of choices when it came to choosing a route we preferred.  We took Interstates, Mountain roads(much to Bruce’s dislike) four lane, two lane, crooked, straight and even a couple of dirt roads. [...]

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Planting Pumpkin Seeds

I think you will agree with me if you plant pumpkin seeds, you certainly would not expect at harvest time to pick watermelons.  Sowing pumpkin seeds will yield pumpkins, right?

Then it’s a curious thing about human beings we plant seeds of discouragement, fear, and doubt and then expect to find our desires at harvest time.  We are so disappointed when we reap what we sowed.  I’m a city girl and farming is not my passion.  However, I know to expect Pumpkins when I plant pumpkin seeds. I know if I plant doubt, fear, and hopeless I’ll never see the harvest I desire. [...]

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Back Against The Wall

We’ve all had those times when we have felt that our backs were against the wall due to a job, relationship, or educational experience. Whatever the circumstances all of sudden we are feeling, thinking, seeing and even hearing ourselves say, “how did this happen”? or “this isn’t what I signed up for.” 

What happens next our choices are: quit or go the only place you can go when your back is against the wall……..FORWARD. 

That’s right you can move forward.  How?  Ask yourself “what do I really want”?  Is it that easy?  Well it’s the first step to moving forward.  Second step give what it is you really want some attention, your energy and focus. Thirdly, allow, just let go of the “how, when, where” it will all happen leave that up to natural law of attraction. […]

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What If?

I suspect like me you have had a great idea about something, and you presented it to friends or family.  Their reaction could have ranged from “hey that’s great go for it,”or “that’s great but “what if”.  Generally what follows is we forget all about the great idea because we get caught up in the “what ifs”.

A dream we had about a better job, moving to a new city, an invention, going back to school has been put on the back burner.

When you encounter those who think they are helping you by bringing up all the “what if’s” doom and gloom, I challenge you to ask them “what if, it turns out great, “what if I find my soul mate in the new city,” what if this idea/invention can make life better” what if I make the Deans list and graduate with honors” [...]

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Latest Success Story

Linda Thank you so much for the seminar. It was helpful to me to increase my positive thinking which is something I can be lacking. I will be using these tools as I go into the New Year with a whole new attitude. I have started carrying a $100 bill in my purse,and also began carrying cash again. It is nice not to feel so strapped.Thank you for the tip! I also stop and measure where my attitude is taking me.